Right now I am going to break down what I have observed and learned about my good friend Piotr. This exercise showed me the "hidden" messages in conversations and shows how important it is.
Auditory/Vocal
When Piotr speaks, he always speaks with confidence and you can hear and sense it in his tone. He always speaks the truth and is not afraid to speak his mind as well. His speaking qualities are also sarcastic when confronted with others, and when he feels it is necessary to break a serious tension.
Visual
In terms of his appearance he has a dark, angry look about him. He always has a serious facial expression and at times looks scary when he is not happy, but he always relaxed and looks like he will take on the world. He also manages to dress appropriately and wears mostly black, brown and white.
Tactile
When speaking to another person, he tends to use hand gestures to emphasize his messages. He also manages to move his body around when someone has made a joke and partially cover his mouth or shakes his head.
Olfactory
Piotr is always wearing some kind of cologne that is a pleasant scent and always has a pack of gum on him to that his breath is minty fresh!
I hope that you now see what i have come to observe over the course of 2 years, and that it will inspire all to look at others and not judge them by looking at them, but by observing them and understanding how they live.
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